Dating again after loss? It’s like jumping into a pool, except the pool is full of sharks, the lifeguard is on break, and you’re still trying to remember how to swim. Society tells us to “take it slow” or “wait for him to make the first move,” but guess what? Sometimes, if you wait too long, Prince Charming just strolls off into the sunset…with someone else!
So, should you make the first move? Heck yes! Here are seven times when it’s absolutely, positively, 100% OK (if not REQUIRED) to take matters into your own hands.
1. When You Know He’s Into You but He’s Clueless
Some men wouldn’t recognize a romantic signal if it hit them with a neon sign and fireworks. If he’s showing interest but not acting, HELP HIM OUT! A simple, “Hey, want to grab coffee?” works wonders.
2. When You’re Tired of Playing Mind Games
If you’re over decoding mixed signals and debating whether “liked your post” means “madly in love” or just “bored at work,” take control. Say what you want and see what happens, spoiler alert: it’s incredibly freeing.
3. When You’re Done With Outdated Rules
Who made the rule that women shouldn’t make the first move? Was it the same person who decided women couldn’t wear pants? Exactly. Take charge and OWN IT!
4. When You’re Too Fabulous to Wait
Time is precious, and so are you. If you spot someone amazing, don’t waste time waiting for fate to intervene, because sometimes fate needs a little nudge (or a strong shove).
5. When the Clock is Ticking (Literally)
If you’re in a café and he’s about to leave, or you’re at an event that’s wrapping up, that’s your cue. No time for subtle hints, go up, smile, and say, “Before you leave, I’d love to get to know you better.” Boom. Magic.
6. When You’re Texting More Than His Mom
If your text conversations are livelier than his group chats with his buddies, it’s time to turn talk into action. Suggest a meet-up instead of waiting for him to grow a backbone.
7. When You’re Ready for Something Real
If you know what you want, why waste time? Take the lead, set the tone, and let him know you’re interested. Confidence is attractive, own it!
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Over to You!
Have you ever made the first move? How did it go? Share your stories (or horror stories, we love those too) in the comments below!