So, you’ve been out of the dating game for a while. Whether it’s been a few years (or a few decades), jumping back into the flirting pool can feel like stepping onto an alien planet.
“Do people still wink?”
“Is it creepy to send a man a drink?”
“What do I even DO with my hands?!”
First, take a deep breath. You are a fabulous, desirable, and completely dateable woman. And guess what? Flirting isn’t about mastering the latest TikTok dating hack, it’s about confidence, charm, and knowing how to have fun.
Ready to shake off the rust and get back in the game? Here are 8 foolproof flirting tricks that work even if your last crush was a young Sean Connery.
1. The Power of Eye Contact (No, Don’t Stare Like a Stalker)
If you’re looking at the floor, your drink, or (worse) your phone all night, no one’s going to notice you. Eye contact is flirting 101, it signals confidence and interest.
- Lock eyes with someone across the room.
- Hold for 3 seconds (not 30, that’s how you get a restraining order).
- Throw in a little smirk. Boom. Instant intrigue.
2. Master the Subtle Touch
Touch is magic. It’s scientifically proven to create a connection. The trick? Keep it light, casual, and completely non-creepy.
- A quick touch on the arm during a laugh.
- A playful push if he teases you.
- Adjust his collar (trust me, it works).
3. Compliments That Aren’t Boring AF
“You have nice eyes.” Snooze. You’re better than that.
Instead, go for unexpected compliments that spark conversation:
- “That’s a killer watch, do you have a whole collection, or is this your signature look?”
- “You have a great laugh. Ever consider a career in stand-up?”
Men love feeling interesting, so make them work for it.
4. The Mysterious Pause
We tend to fill awkward silences with nervous chatter. Instead, pause after he speaks and let the moment breathe.
- “Oh wow, you’re a pilot? That’s so cool. My friend’s brother is also a pilot! Where do you fly? Do you ever get scared? What’s the best city to visit?” (Too much, darling.)
- “You’re a pilot? That’s fascinating.” Pause. Hold eye contact. Smile.
This makes him want to keep talking, and makes you look like a total mystery queen.
5. Channel Your Inner Sass Queen
Playful teasing = flirting gold.
- “Wow, that’s a bold shirt choice. Are you always this confident, or is it the tequila?”
- “So, do you use that line on all the ladies, or am I special?”
This isn’t about being mean, it’s about creating chemistry.
6. Ditch the ‘Interview’ Mode
First dates should not feel like job interviews. Instead of drilling him with questions, tell a great story.
- “So, what do you do? How long have you been in the city? Do you like dogs?” (Yawn.)
- “I once tried to make a soufflé and ended up setting off my fire alarm. What’s your biggest cooking disaster?”
Stories make you memorable, and a lot more fun.
7. Use Your Secret Weapon: Fragrance
Want to know a flirting hack that requires zero effort? Smell incredible.
Men have ridiculously strong scent memory. A signature scent makes you instantly unforgettable.
Enter Flirt & Flourish Perfume, a luxurious fragrance designed specifically for women re-entering the dating world. With warm vanilla, hints of jasmine, and a subtle musk, it’s confidence in a bottle.
- One spritz = instant allure.
- Leave a lasting impression (literally).
- The #1 thing men say when they hug you? “Wow, you smell amazing.”
Get your bottle today and let your scent do half the flirting for you.
8. The Exit Strategy That Keeps Him Wanting More
A great flirt never overstays her welcome. Leave while the chemistry is sizzling.
- Mid-laugh: “I’d love to stay, but I have to run, maybe we pick this up over coffee sometime?”
- With a wink: “I’ll let you wonder whether I had fun tonight.”
Always leave them wanting more. That’s how you guarantee a second date.
Ready to Get Your Flirt On?
Listen, flirting isn’t about looking perfect or having the best pick-up line, it’s about feeling confident and having fun. So, take these tips, throw on your signature scent, and get out there!
What’s the best (or worst) flirting advice you’ve ever heard? Drop it in the comments below, I need a laugh.