So, you finally did it. You dusted off your dating shoes, put on your best outfit, and stepped back into the wild, unpredictable world of romance. The date happened, and now you’re staring at your phone, debating what to text. Should you be cute? Casual? Mysterious?
Let’s get real: one bad text can turn a promising connection into a tragic ghosting scenario. To save you from cringeworthy texting disasters, here are the 10 worst texts to send after a date, and what to say instead.
1. “Hey.”
Ah, the world’s most uninspired text. It screams, “I have nothing to say, but I want to say something.” Not exactly the spark that leads to romance.
✅ Instead, try: “I had such a great time tonight! That story about your dog had me laughing all the way home.”Personal, engaging, and sets up another convo.
2. “So, what did you think of me?”
Oh no. No, no, no. This text oozes insecurity. Confidence is attractive; fishing for validation is not.
✅ Instead, try: “I really enjoyed our conversation about [insert something specific]. You have such a fun perspective on things.” Show interest in them instead of making it about you.
3. “Why aren’t you texting back?”
Yikes. The desperation is LOUD. Even if they’re into you, this text makes you seem impatient.
✅ Instead, try: Give them space. If they’re interested, they’ll respond. If not, their silence is your answer.
4. “I think I love you.”
Slow down, Romeo. You just met them. Even if the date was amazing, this comes off as way too intense.
✅ Instead, try: “I had such a great time! Looking forward to seeing you again.” Keep it light and breezy.
5. “My ex used to…”
Stop right there. Comparing your date to your ex is the fastest way to ensure there won’t be a second date.
✅ Instead, try: “It’s so refreshing to meet someone who is [compliment them on something unique].” Keep the focus on them, not your past.
6. “I’m surprised you actually showed up.”
Even if it’s meant as a joke, it sounds like you had low expectations. Not exactly flattering.
✅ Instead, try: “I’m so glad we finally got to meet up! I really enjoyed our conversation.” Keep it positive.
7. “I don’t usually do this, but…”
This makes it sound like dating you is some kind of forbidden act. Not the best vibe.
✅ Instead, try: Just say what you mean without the weird disclaimer! Example: “I’d love to see you again. Want to grab coffee this weekend?”
8. “Let’s get married.”
Even as a joke, this can come off as too much, too soon.
✅ Instead, try: “I had such a fun time, definitely hope we can do it again soon!” Flirty, not frightening.
9. “Are you dating anyone else?”
It’s date one. Calm down.
✅ Instead, try: “I really enjoyed spending time with you. Looking forward to doing it again!” Build the connection first.
10. A giant paragraph confessing your life story.
There’s such a thing as too much information. Keep it simple and intriguing.
✅ Instead, try: “I had such a great time! Can’t wait to do it again.” Leave them wanting more.
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Now tell me, what’s the most awkward post-date text you’ve ever sent? Drop it in the comments (so we can all cringe together)! 👇