Ladies, let’s be real, the dating world post-widowhood is like jumping into a pool without checking if there’s water first. One minute, you’re cautiously dipping your toe in, and the next, you’re drafting wedding vows for a man who still texts “GM” instead of spelling out “Good morning.”
So, how do you know if you’re falling in love too fast? Here are five unmistakable (and slightly ridiculous) signs that you might be on the express train to Heartbreak Station.
1. You’re Already Picking Out China Patterns
If you’ve known him for three weeks and have already mentally arranged your monogrammed towels together, slow down. Pinterest should not be involved this early. A solid relationship is built on trust, not on matching his last name to yours in cursive.
2. You Forgive Red Flags Like They’re Cute Quirks
“Oh, he only texts me at midnight? He must be a night owl!” No, Susan. He’s a bad communicator or, worse, a man-child. If you find yourself explaining away major flaws like they’re adorable personality traits, take a step back and reassess.
3. You’re Treating Him Like a Therapy Replacement
Yes, you miss the comfort of having a partner. Yes, vulnerability is important. But if he knows your entire trauma history before he knows your favorite coffee order, you might be emotionally speed-running your connection.
4. Your Friends Are Side-Eyeing Your Enthusiasm
The best reality check? Your inner circle. If your best friend has developed a concerned eyebrow twitch every time you mention his name, maybe, just maybe, you need to pump the brakes.
5. You’re Ignoring Your Own Life
A new romance should enhance your world, not consume it. If your once-thriving yoga nights have been replaced with refreshing his Instagram page, it’s time for a hard reset.
So, What’s the Solution?
Falling fast is easy. But sustaining a real, lasting connection? That takes balance. That’s where The Widow’s Dating Guide comes in, a must-read for any woman reentering the dating scene. It’s packed with practical advice, expert tips, and even a few laugh-out-loud stories to remind you that love is a journey, not a sprint.
Grab your copy today and date with confidence (not chaos)!
And now, over to you: Have you ever fallen in love too fast? What’s your funniest “too soon” dating moment? Drop it in the comments below!