So, you’re back in the dating game after who-knows-how-long, and things have changed. You used to know how to read a man, but now? It feels like trying to decode hieroglyphics with a magnifying glass and a glass of wine.
Worry not, my fabulous widow warriors! The truth is, men are not that complicated. They might say one thing, but their bodies? Their bodies never lie. (And no, I don’t mean just that part, get your mind out of the gutter!)
Here are 7 body language secrets that will reveal exactly how he feels about you, before he even opens his mouth.
1. The Lean Factor
The Sign: He leans in when you talk.
This is a good one, ladies. If he’s closing the gap and subtly moving toward you, congratulations! He’s intrigued. He’s engaged. He’s not thinking about the football game he left on pause at home.
The Red Flag: If he’s leaning away…
Uh-oh. Either you have spinach in your teeth, or he’s not that into you. Either way, check a mirror and move on.
2. The Eye Contact Test
The Sign: He locks eyes with you and holds the gaze.
Translation? He’s into you. He’s mesmerized, and possibly picturing you in his life (or at least in his car, heading to dinner).
The Red Flag: If he keeps looking around the room…
Either he’s got a criminal record and is scanning for cops, or he’s just not invested in you. Either way, next!
3. The Hand Placement Trick
The Sign: His hands are on the table, palms up.
This means trust. It’s a subconscious signal that he’s open to you and not hiding anything, physically or emotionally.
The Red Flag: Hands in pockets, crossed arms, or clenching his drink like it’s his last lifeline?
Yikes. He’s either defensive, closed off, or already planning his exit strategy.
4. The Foot Pointing Hack
The Sign: His feet are pointed toward you.
Weird, but true, body language experts say feet don’t lie! If his feet are directed at you, it means you’re the focus of his attention.
The Red Flag: If his feet are pointed toward the door…
He might already be planning his escape. Politely excuse yourself and let him go.
5. The Shoulder Shrug Mystery
The Sign: He mirrors your movements.
If he subtly copies how you sit, sip your drink, or tilt your head? That’s a huge sign he’s subconsciously connecting with you.
The Red Flag: If he’s stiff as a board and sitting like a statue…
Houston, we have a problem. He’s either nervous or completely uninterested. Either way, no sparks = no second date.
6. The Subtle Touch Game
The Sign: He finds reasons to lightly touch you.
A casual brush of your hand, a playful tap on your arm, these are subconscious ways he’s trying to create intimacy.
The Red Flag: If he flinches or pulls away…
Yeah. He’s about as excited as a cat at a dog park. Time to say “Next!”
7. The Smile Test
The Sign: His smile reaches his eyes.
A genuine smile lights up a man’s entire face, it’s the kind that lingers and makes you feel seen.
The Red Flag: If he gives you a tight-lipped, meh smile…
Either he’s faking interest, or he’s just that bad at emotions. Either way, you deserve better!
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Now, Over to You!
What’s the weirdest body language signal you’ve ever seen on a date? Drop your stories in the comments, I need to hear these!