When you suddenly find yourself managing everything solo, even simple chores can feel like climbing Mount Everest, without oxygen, in stilettos, during a blizzard. If you’ve ever stared at a broken appliance like it personally betrayed you or let out a battle cry before wrestling with the trash can, welcome to the club.
But don’t worry, I’ve got your back. Let’s tackle these overwhelming tasks one by one, with a little humor, a lot of practical advice, and maybe a glass of wine nearby.
1. Fixing Things That Break (Because They Always Do)
Murphy’s Law is alive and well in your house. The moment you need something to work, it decides to quit like a dramatic soap opera character.
How to handle it: YouTube is your new best friend. There are tutorials for everything from fixing a leaky faucet to troubleshooting a washing machine that sounds like it’s summoning demons. And if all else fails? Befriend a handy neighbor or invest in a reliable handyman. (Bribing with cookies works wonders.)
2. Taking Out the Trash (The Bin Weighs More Than You)
Why is the garbage bag suddenly the weight of a full-grown Labrador? And why does it always leak?
How to handle it: Double-bagging is your new secret weapon. If your trash can feels like deadlifting at the gym, a rolling bin might just save your back. Also, don’t be afraid to outsource, this is prime “neighbor kid looking for pocket money” territory.
3. Yard Work (Or, The Jungle Formerly Known as Your Lawn)
Mowing, weeding, trimming, who knew grass could be so high-maintenance?
How to handle it: Electric mowers are lighter and easier to handle. No shame in hiring a lawn service if that’s in the budget! If you’re tackling it yourself, do it in small sections and reward yourself accordingly (ice cream, naps, or retail therapy all count).
4. Changing Lightbulbs (Because They’re Always in the Worst Spots)
Of course, it’s the highest, most awkwardly placed lightbulb that burns out first.
How to handle it: Invest in a sturdy step stool (no more teetering on a dining chair). Consider LED bulbs that last forever, less changing, more living. And if you’re really feeling adventurous, get smart bulbs you can control from your phone (because climbing ladders is overrated).
5. Handling Car Maintenance (Check Engine Light = Instant Panic)
The check engine light comes on, and suddenly, you’re mentally drafting your will.
How to handle it: Keep a basic emergency kit in your car (jumper cables, flashlight, tire gauge). Learn how to check your oil and tire pressure, super easy and saves you money. And when in doubt? Find a trustworthy mechanic who doesn’t see you as an easy target for unnecessary repairs.
6. Dealing with Unwanted Critters (Yes, That’s a Spider the Size of Texas)
Bugs, mice, mysterious thuds in the attic, welcome to the joys of solo homeownership.
How to handle it: Seal up food properly, check for entry points, and don’t be afraid to call an exterminator if things get out of hand. For spiders? A vacuum hose or a long broom can be your best defense (or, you know, just set the house on fire… kidding. Mostly.).
7. Cleaning the Gutters (AKA Death-Defying Acrobatics on a Ladder)
Gutters: those things you never think about until they overflow like Niagara Falls.
How to handle it: If ladders make you nervous (which is totally valid), consider hiring a professional. Gutter guards can also save you time and effort in the long run. If you insist on DIY? Rope in a friend to spot you because safety first.
8. Handling Bills and Home Paperwork (Adulting Level: Expert)
Property taxes, insurance, warranties, why is there so much paperwork?!
How to handle it: Set up auto-pay where possible, use a binder (or a digital folder) to organize important documents, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Financial advisors, online budgeting tools, and even a well-organized spreadsheet can make life a whole lot easier.
You’ve Got This!
Managing a household alone can feel overwhelming, but with the right tricks (and the occasional deep breath), you’ll conquer it all. Start small, ask for help when needed, and remember: you’re stronger than you think.
What’s the one household task that drives you absolutely nuts? Drop it in the comments, I promise, you’re not alone!